Thursday, July 18, 2013

423 People in Family



What is probably most relevant about the many aspects of social harmony or chaos we have been sampling up until now is that they are so evident in everyday life and yet so largely overlooked.  

Through one last comment on group dynamics, I will attempt to explain why. 

You see, many of life’s human circumstances are ruled by group dynamics. The group dynamic is particularly evident in families of birth where people are in lifelong connection with each other (ideally).

Yet the group dynamic is also obvious in cultural situations both positive and negative—where they may be observed in the form of communities, organizations, clubs, institutions, gangs, governments, the workplace, nations, and so on, and loosely referred to as "families".

This may sound like a theme from a college level Social Studies class. And I think it is (since I have had such a class). A classic example of group dynamics is in the 1963 Film: West Side Story.

In both family and other social contexts, similar habits, attitudes and behaviors frequently unite people into groups and create a form of fairly homogenous social order within the group. The great benefit of this spontaneous social order in positive groups is a one-mind mentality that reduces conflict, creates identity and ideally promotes health, wealth and happiness within the group, as well as any other group impacted by them. The great detriment of the group dynamic in negative groups is how such “unity” can negatively impact positive groups—through dissention, hostility, and attack; undermining their effectiveness and durability.

People do love to group up, Gentle Reader! But the choice of group dynamic, how they will act, react and interact, is crucial to groups being of benefit to each other—within each group—and beyond.

And, of course, good guidelines and communication benefit everyone.

To be continued . . .

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